Space

In my last blog, I reflected on the concept of time. What is inseparable from time in physics is space. This blog isn't about "space" from a physical perspective, but rather the space in which we are constantly searching and where we feel welcome and comfortable. At least in my environment, I observe that many are not completely satisfied with their current surroundings. This feeling can trigger the desire to emigrate or at least to change one's place of residence.

"Home" is a feeling that goes far beyond the boundaries of a physical place. It is a state of well-being, security, and belonging, which often only develops over time. The connection we build to a place is closely tied to the social relationships we form there. Friendships and family ties are what give a place its true meaning and convey to us the feeling of home. The decision to leave one’s own dwelling and venture into the unknown is often a response to a deeply rooted feeling of dissatisfaction or a longing for change. This restlessness leads us to question what it really means to feel "at home" somewhere. Is it the physical place that offers us security, or is it the people and memories that make a space meaningful to us?

The feeling of not fully arriving or belonging can be a strong motivation to explore new horizons. Yet, a change of location alone is rarely the solution to profound questions of belonging and fulfillment. The feeling of having arrived is created through the connections we establish with a place and the social contacts there—a connection that takes time and is strengthened through shared experiences and the forging of social bonds. The idea of going abroad or moving for a certain period can be appealing and is often seen as a means for personal and professional development. This break can be enriching if it is consciously used to expand one's horizons, experience new cultures, and acquire new skills. However, the challenges of such an endeavor should not be underestimated—the financial uncertainty, acclimatizing to a foreign culture, and building a new social network require courage, openness, and adaptability.

The key to a successful sabbatical lies in the inner processing and conscious consideration of the reasons for the change of location. It involves realizing that the feeling of home is less a question of place and more a question of internal attitude. The ability to feel at home anywhere in the world is closely linked to one's own identity and understanding of belonging. In this process, friends and family play an irreplaceable role, as they provide support and a sense of continuity, even when we are physically far from them.

Ultimately, the experience of leaving one's own space and moving around the world is a journey to oneself. It is a process of discovering what it truly means to live and love, and of learning that home is more than just a place on the map. Home is where we feel understood and valued, where we can grow and flourish—and sometimes we find this place not by searching, but by realizing that we already carry it within us.

To conclude with Matze's practical tips: There are two good reasons to emigrate: to broaden your horizons, or if your current place of residence, for whatever reason, no longer aligns with your own values. The wrong reason to emigrate is to flee from oneself and when the reasons for dissatisfaction lie deeper. Of course, it is also important that the financial means for the change of scenery are sufficient. Please do not emigrate like in some reality shows without a job, language skills, or sufficient funds. Family and friends who love and support you will back you in all your decisions that help you progress in life. If not, that might just be the reason for your dissatisfaction... Stay tuned.